 Is it love or infatuation You’ve dated your fair share of women and have always enjoyed keeping your options open, but lately there’s been this one woman that has you wondering if she’s the One. Here’s a list of the common behavioural traits that will help you quieten the demons in your head and figure out if you have indeed fallen for her.
Ex Vex
Usually a breakup is followed by a significant amount of time spent thinking about your ex and wondering whether or not you made the right decision in going your separate ways. Ever since you met this new one, surprisingly, however, your ex has been on your mind less and less.
You’re always on my mind
In fact, she often pops into your head for no apparent reason, and you wonder if she thinks of you half as much as you think of her. Half the time you refrain from calling her up for fear of looking overeager. You even start noticing things like what colours she usually wears. If she’s the last thing on your mind before you go to sleep and the first thing on your mind when you wake up then you don’t even need to read on to know if you’re in love.
You care
When you’re in love with a woman, you want to know all about her: who she is, what she thinks, what makes her laugh. You truly care about her and her feelings. If you truly love a woman, you feel bad if she had a bad day or is upset about something. You try to cheer her up.
Charming quirks
The fact that she has to match every piece of accessory with her clothes, or that she wants to go shopping every now and then also fills you with an inexplicable feeling of happiness. What’s more, you find yourself helping her shop for those pink pyjamas that she has been wanting for quite some time.
Great chemistry
You can’t be in love with someone that you have no chemistry with. If you seem to always be on the same wavelength, and think in similar ways, that’s a great sign. If you also generate enough heat to set off a fire-alarm, then she is probably someone that you could fall in love with.
The other women get a miss
Although you can’t help noticing a beautiful woman when one walks by, when you’re in love, some of them tend to slip under the radar, while others just pale in comparison to her. Furthermore, you don’t seem to be flirting half as much as you used to.
She takes up your time
You look forward to seeing her, and don’t care much about what the two of you will be doing. Even though you’re downright lazy by nature, lately, just going for a walk with her sounds like the best way you could possibly spend an evening. When you’re not together, you miss her and wish you were spending time together.
You begin to compromise
There was a time when it was your way or the highway, but with her it’s different. You find yourself trying to alter your plans to accommodate her plans.
She’s No. 1 priority
You used to train religiously, but lately, if she’s free for dinner, you don’t mind missing a workout. Your ever-important “to do” list seems quite stagnant these days, as being with her always manages to render your other plans and obligations obsolete.
She’s a part of your future plans
It used to be that the future with a woman meant your date on Saturday night, but with this woman, the future seems infinite. Not only do you plan to see her this weekend, but you want to see her a year from now as well. When planning your next vacation, you know you want to spend it with her.
She’s the one
If you are currently dating a woman that makes you act in any of the ways mentioned above, then you, my friend, are seriously falling for her. It’s time to put away the little black book for a while and enjoy the ride.
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