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What should I do?
I’m a 27-year-old man in love with my fiancée. She is the girl that I want to marry. Even my family is quite fond of her. But last month she told me about her ex-boyfriend and how intimate they were. I had no issues with that but now she says that her ex has approached her and is pleading with her to come back. Though she is not ready to go back, she says she still feels for him. I appreciate her honesty but at the same time, I feel bad for myself. I need this girl in my life; just can’t do without her. Help!
SS, Delhi
You’re lucky that your fiancée trusts you enough to confide in you. As much as you want her in your life, do make sure you ask her what she really wants. Does she want to marry you or does she want to go back to her ex? Give her enough time to decide and tell her to stick to her decision then. Janki Shah
Your fiancée is in two minds. Tell her that she has to make up her mind now, because her indecisiveness is keeping two men hanging! Deepak Mehra
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