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manishi husbandBy Manishi

I have got a friend in my husband who gives me sufficient space to grow and take up my own decisions, but at the very same time he holds me back when I am just about to fall.
 
My husband is working for 5 days a week and after toiling so hard throughout the week then comes a weekend. I desperately wait for the weekend so that we can be together for all 24*2. But this weekend he had some interviews to be taken, because of which he was supposed to be there in the office on Saturday.. He told me about his schedule on Friday itself as he knows it very well that for me weekends are like to be in heaven. He explained me the urgency of the work and asked to make up my mind.
 
I supported him and said that if work demands then he must go to the office and I will be comfortable. But as the Saturday arrived and my husband start getting ready for the office I felt terrible. Although I didn’t say a word and managed to maintain a smile on my face while completing my morning works. My hubby after having his breakfast left for the office and told me he will be late.

After he went to the office I with all my enthusiasm lost lied on the bed just waiting for the time to flee like air. After half an hour I got a call from my husband. It was the usual as after reaching the office he always calls up to inform. I picked up my cell and said “so you reached” but without let me talk further he said “I am missing you and although you pretended a lot today in the morning but I know how much are you dieing to be with me.”

That one sentence made up my day. I felt the energy back. I came to know what makes me go on. Yes it is the unconditional, unspoken love that we share with each other. To my surprise instead of coming late he turned up early in the evening and told that he got all his appointments arranged in the first half. The day was not ended here. He took me out for the dinner that evening.

Love has its own language which doesn’t need any words to describe. It comes to us when we expect it least. There is an attraction between the new couples which gets reduced as the time passes. But actually if you can realize then the attraction doesn’t get reduced. It gets converted into a strong bond and understanding.

I have got a friend in my husband who gives me sufficient space to grow and take up my own decisions, but at the very same time he holds me back when I am just about to fall.

Whenever I do something wrong and everyone else is about to raise a finger upon me, then like a caring mother he envelopes me and make everyone realize that she is not wrong but then chides at me when alone. Whenever I get nervous and confused then like a guiding father patiently listens to me and shows me a path. Whenever I do something unexpected then like a proud brother and sister he pats me and encourages me by saying “let’s see what you will do next time.”

He finds it irritating to say “I LOVE YOU” every morning or before sleeping but thanks God every morning for making our match and prays him to protect me from all mishappenings. He hates me to blame him for not remembering the dates but takes care of the smallest amenities in the house so that my every day goes smoothly. He do not like to walk on the road holding my hand publically but after the party at home gets over always caresses my feet thinking that I have worked hard throughout the day to make the party arrangements perfect. He at times forgets to praise the food I cook but never let me eat alone without him.

All this and lot more make him to be a special and precious person in my Life.

LOVE SHOULD BE A HARDY TREE, ABLE TO WITHSTAND WINTER STORMS.

CHERISH IT LIKE A SPRINGTIME FLOWER, AND IT WILL LAST FOR ETERNITY.


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Nemesh Singh (59.95.107.xxx) 2008-08-28 02:00:12

I always admire this girl and she is a terrific writer. I always enjoy reading about her life but this article has definitely provoked me to marry soon :)

Great work done...3 Cheers for you :)
jonathan (59.180.37.xxx) 2008-08-30 12:42:03

i recieved your message you send to me and it is very fantastic as i saw it.

well my sister i am very happy as a wonderfully message and your a explain every thing to me about your hussband with your enjoyness
thanks you
jonathan (59.180.37.xxx) 2008-08-30 12:41:22

hello i recieved your message and it is so nice
LOVE NEVER ENDS
SURESH KUMAR (59.180.37.xxx) 2008-08-30 12:40:55

I felt very comfortable while seeing the manisi's happiness.I Want to have the same kind of happiness in my life after getting the good friend as my wife.
LOVE NEVER ENDS
SURESH KUMAR (195.229.236.xxx) 2008-08-30 11:05:45

:arrow: I want to have the same kind of happiness after getting the good friend as my wife
Simply heavenly feeling
Nihar Pradhan (61.95.195.xxx) 2008-08-30 11:20:58

By reading only u will die to have some girl like this in your life. Thanks dear friend. :cheer:
Am encouraged!
sese (196.29.217.xxx) 2008-08-30 12:28:02

I like her write-up. Do you know what? I have being afraid of marrying because of what I see marriages turn my friends into. Many of friends were living good and comfortable lives, but immediately after weddings, they turn into dursbin because of how the husbands are maltreating them. Most especially Nigerian Men.

With Manishi's writing, am a bit encouraged to get married and I pray that I shall a sweet and caring husband like hers.
Great One!!
Teena (114.31.251.xxx) 2008-08-30 12:57:14

Hi,,
Your write up is just too great!!
now i wish i get a gud hubby like yrs!!!

thnx u are making m think +vely abt alliance..
Absence makes the Heart grow f
Capt. William Bligh (203.115.71.xxx) 2008-08-30 13:55:12

Dear Manisha & Hubbie,
I thank you for your wonderful article which inspired me a lot.

As a Seafarer for 30 years, I perforce have to leave my Wife & kids behind for long periods of time of about 6 months or more.

Even though the life at sea is very busy & fulfilling, there is not an hour when I imagine what my wife & kids are doing at home, & I always keep a special clock showing I.S.T. {Indian Standard Time} right in front of my desk, so that no matter in which part of the world I may be, I always feel at home during those few seconds when I look at that clock & think about them.

With Best Regards,

From: Capt. William Bligh. :)
shadi
Vinod (61.1.127.xxx) 2008-08-30 14:16:02

:cheer:
that s spirite
Marraiges are made in heaven.
Vetri Selvi (122.164.49.xxx) 2008-08-30 14:33:27

I liked your intresting life, Be happy always and enjoy your life. :)
love
tinashe (196.2.64.xxx) 2008-08-30 14:35:57

that is fantastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this encourages young and old couples to keep the storm of l;ove alive
lucky
prakash (202.131.100.xxx) 2008-08-30 15:49:45

i happy read ,i pray god you happy in your life i never read ro seen this type of life so you really lucky.

prakash gadhavi :
best of luck
sekar (117.201.17.xxx) 2008-08-30 21:35:11

B)
Pallavi (122.167.202.xxx) 2008-08-30 23:33:42

I always believe, that a relationship is a two way street..and that it needs constant working upon by both the individuals.

I am not married yet, but have in relationship with the same man since high school which is a span of about 9.5 yrs to this day..yet our love and yearning for each other hasnt ceased (touchwood)...cz we keep working to keep the flame burning. Thats all thats needed I feel. Rest will follow suit.

Loved reading you.
Amazing write up
Chris (122.167.118.xxx) 2008-08-31 13:56:14

:woohoo: Amazing write up...you are good to write a book....
best
rajesh (203.76.132.xxx) 2008-08-31 14:06:17

your good life and happiness all life
Ashish (122.166.88.xxx) 2008-08-31 16:24:18

great words n feelings.......
Anshu (122.163.19.xxx) 2008-08-31 19:55:29

gr8,im single till date but want a somwhat similar husband..
ur lucky
take care dear :cheer:
appki choch bahut achchi hai
Dilip lakhera (218.248.79.xxx) 2008-09-01 09:53:07

hello mansi appne thik kaha ki my husband is my best friend.
nice asked
Dilip lakhera (218.248.79.xxx) 2008-09-01 09:55:20

:cheer: very good
You both are lucky .....
Puneet Arora (61.95.201.xxx) 2008-09-01 10:33:03

Hi Mansi,

I really feel very happy to see hows your married life going smoothly.

Thanks
Puneet
great two
sabastine yohana (217.14.92.xxx) 2008-09-01 10:48:57

hi,
nice to hear about you and your hubby,
keep it up .
GOD's Gift
preeti (196.192.109.xxx) 2008-09-01 13:58:46

Dear didi your message is so encouraging and it is really inspiring for unmarried personss as it shows them the right way and how to treat their husband equally.If your hubby cares so much then definitely you care for him too it shows how can people on their make their lives happy
really nice couple u rrrrrrrrr
Piyush (220.227.165.xxx) 2008-09-01 17:35:05

Hi happiest couple,

I really feel very-2 happy to know hows your married life going smoothly.
i m single till date but want a somwhat similar wife..


Thanks
Piyush
SAME PINCH
shaheen (59.161.158.xxx) 2008-09-01 17:52:51

Urs and mine story resemble each other a lot, the same kind of hubby, lucky us.
B.rajasekar (59.92.108.xxx) 2008-09-01 17:59:41

hai manisha,
i have seen your profile really very nice to see that i wish u all very sucess in your life.convey my regrads to your life.u both are made for each other only..
Nice Couple
R A mahindrakar (57.67.17.xxx) 2008-09-01 18:44:53

The event and happenings were fantastic and the way you planned and enjoyed the week end seems to be never ending. I wish it would be never ending too for your holy enjoyment.God bless you and keep fit to enjoy the life as you like. :cheer:
Love Bird
Amit (219.91.131.xxx) 2008-09-01 18:48:22

:) hi frinds ur lucky person u have nice and good life partner look like LOVE BIRD.enjoy life with ur nice partner always good balze u.

Amit
lucky & love
sunil (122.167.101.xxx) 2008-09-01 19:44:07

:) Amazing :.
really feel very-2 happy to know hows your married life going smoothly
FEEL THE LOVE
VERY NICE
amitanandgidhwani7 (220.227.14.xxx) 2008-09-02 13:02:53

:)
well done
friend (118.95.72.xxx) 2008-09-02 14:55:41

hi,


i hope u guys will be 2gather for a long time.................wish u a happy married life
Anonymous (41.204.224.xxx) 2008-09-02 15:43:00

hi

i love ur marriage n love style keep it going n growing.

cheers
:kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
jonathan
Manishi (220.227.14.xxx) 2008-09-02 16:11:03

Hi Jonathan,

I am very glad that you got it and very very thankful for the lovely comments.

Manishi
amitanandgidhwani7
Manishi (220.227.14.xxx) 2008-09-02 15:59:33

amitanandgidhwani7

Thankyou so much dear......
Thank you so much.
Manishi (59.92.175.xxx) 2008-09-02 18:13:37

Dear Friends,

Your responses are really very encouraging. Thankyou so much for your comments they are really precious to me.
I wish you all the luck to you all for your better future.

Take Care
Regards
Manishi
Gr8 article
Amit (59.92.152.xxx) 2008-09-03 10:23:41

The write-up is very impressive and easy to read. I would like to hear more from you. Good work. Keep it up.
God's Blessings
Senapathy (59.92.107.xxx) 2008-09-03 23:38:57

Dear Manishi,

Peaceful Greetings.

I feel that my sister who has got pleasant life which sanctioned by the God.

Let you have to enjoy your life with achievements.

Since I am separated and my wife lived with me only 22 days only. She broughtup in the urban environment but I am in sub-urban areas. According to my teaching profession, I have to stay there itself.

Kindly recommend the brides who have divorced with good academic and economic background. I am simple, like to live modern outlook.

Wishing both you have been blessed by God.

with best wishes

Yours Brotherly,

Dr.M.Senapathy.
nice
asis (210.211.200.xxx) 2008-09-04 10:00:16

:woohoo:
Suraj (59.95.12.xxx) 2008-09-04 18:11:39

Unconditional love... It's nice to to know that there is still a bit of it left in this world... Keep it up.
take care
vishal (59.98.160.xxx) 2008-09-06 17:01:53

Hi
gr8... :P I really feel very happy to see hows your married life going smoothly.marriage is depends on loyalty,understanding and trust.

Take Care...........


Regards
Vishal Thakkar
senthil (220.227.164.xxx) 2008-09-08 12:01:01

:lol: nice toread a poem of your love.let it grow and my wishes.

arasu
godbless u
rams (117.195.161.xxx) 2008-09-08 17:00:40

ur so nice couple. i am appriciating u .ur a good couple
execellent
Narinder Singh Pathania (117.200.67.xxx) 2008-09-19 14:30:51

i like your thinking
Anamika (59.182.93.xxx) 2008-09-20 13:32:21

If the basic foundation is very clearly set at the start of any relationship or when you know that you are going to seriously think of staying together,then one knows each other better. It is only with the passage of time when all the attraction has faded or lessened; then the true picture comes forward.

The most important thing is to remind yourself time to time,specially when the relationship falters; that at the very start of it was because you fell in love with the better-half. It should not be taken for granted. The most important thing, work towards the relationship from time to time.
Excellent
Excellent (59.97.32.xxx) 2008-09-20 22:19:59

Excellent :cheer:
gr8 article
Lovy (59.145.141.xxx) 2008-09-25 14:40:28

You have composed this article in a very nice flow. Life becomes so beautiful when partners understand and care each other.

:cheer:
amazing feel of love
murali (61.17.22.xxx) 2008-10-02 12:23:20

good & very interesting. this make the real feel of love
wow
manoj (122.162.58.xxx) 2008-10-05 16:40:33

:)

i thing your couple is very nice and no pair in the whole world
Anonymous (59.98.153.xxx) 2008-10-06 15:17:06

happy married life best of luck u life :D
shock
venkat (59.98.113.xxx) 2008-10-07 10:47:57

<img src=hock:' /> i wish all the best... for u r futre that same.....venkat
hi manishi
meena (124.125.247.xxx) 2008-10-07 13:29:11

i m from ahmedabad.

as u like your best friend is only your husband. i like it becoz i also like in life only my husband is 1 man for me. becoz he is very clever happy & feeling my problems alltime. & help me in everytime

meena.
Great
kamal (59.181.107.xxx) 2008-10-27 16:54:15

I am realy satisfied and congratulate the couples who are living their life happily. It's only 1 % in this world.


Hat's off to you guys.


Keep it up

100 smiles for both of you :kiss:
far husband
rahul agarwal (125.63.107.xxx) 2008-10-31 14:20:16

u r great partner u r so lucky. i am proud of both.but i am very unlucky my life partner cheated me.
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